Finding the right roommate
A great roommate match is less about being best friends and more about living compatibly. Here's how to find someone you'll actually enjoy sharing a space with.
Know your own habits first
Be honest about your sleep schedule, cleanliness, noise tolerance, and whether you like having guests over. The best matches start with an accurate picture of how you actually live — not how you wish you lived.
Focus on what actually matters
Deal-breakers usually come down to sleep, cleanliness, guests, and money. Shared taste in music or shows is nice, but day-to-day compatibility on the basics is what keeps a living situation happy.
Look past the vibe
Someone can be fun to chat with and still be a rough roommate. Use compatibility scores and profiles to check the practical stuff, and read reviews from people who've lived with them when they're available.
Talk before you commit
Message a few candidates and ask real questions — quiet hours, splitting chores and bills, how they handle conflict. Dormly's Decision Mode lays your finalists side-by-side so you can compare who you've actually connected with.
Put it in a roommate agreement
Once you choose, write a roommate agreement together covering cleaning, guests, quiet hours, and bills. It's not a legal contract — it's a shared understanding that heads off most conflicts before they start.
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